A Must Read Before Taking Your Puppy Home
I wanted to highlight a common issue that breeders come across with new owners. The following excerpt is from a breeder to help you navigate life with your new puppy.
You see the breeder’s pictures and videos, and the pups are all social. They are quiet in the pen. The breeder shows you videos of them being totally relaxed, happy, and playful. Everything looks amazing, and you bring your puppy home...then reality hits.
The puppy may cry in the crate for the first few nights, making you tired and agitated. The happy, social puppy is refusing to greet the half dozen overly excited friends you invited over to see your new puppy—or the overly excited, playful children you have at home. The puppy refuses to walk on a leash. Many are wondering, How did my perfect puppy turn into a nightmare?
So let’s discuss realistic expectations of when a puppy goes home.
First of all, the puppy has been in the breeder’s home since birth. They had their mother and littermates. They had their routine, were taught expectations, and were completely in their comfort zone. Now, suddenly, they are taken to a totally new environment. Picture yourself being dropped into an unknown country in a different part of the world. You know only a few words of their language. Different sounds, smells, temperatures, animals, and people. Now, in the middle of all this, we are switching up your routine, possibly deciding to have a party with people you don’t know, and asking you to do jobs you have no idea how to do. Overwhelming, to say the least.
This is what every puppy goes through when going to their new home. Stress manifests in different forms—from not eating, reluctance to play, or hesitation to greet people, to being apprehensive at the vet’s office or when strangers reach for them. Diarrhea, vomiting, and depression can also occur.
So what can you, as a new owner, do to help your little one acclimate?
Outings should be planned after the puppy has received ALL vaccinations, and then only at the puppy’s speed. While you might imagine a fun walk around the lake, in reality your puppy might only be able to handle a short distance that day. They may be curious and energetic, or they may become overwhelmed. Watch your puppy for cues on how to proceed. Most outings for me take a long time, as I am often just standing still while the puppy cautiously explores the new environment. Patience is key!
Remember, if the puppy was wonderful at the breeder’s house but is now struggling, you as the owner need to help the puppy adjust—which takes time, patience, and training. Have realistic expectations and give the puppy positive feedback and happy experiences.
Each puppy is an individual. Don’t compare your current puppy to past pets or judge their behavior based on how another dog handled things. Lastly, try to see things from a puppy’s perspective and adjust situations accordingly.
Love your puppy, and they will love you 100 times more in return.
I wanted to highlight a common issue that breeders come across with new owners. The following excerpt is from a breeder to help you navigate life with your new puppy.
You see the breeder’s pictures and videos, and the pups are all social. They are quiet in the pen. The breeder shows you videos of them being totally relaxed, happy, and playful. Everything looks amazing, and you bring your puppy home...then reality hits.
The puppy may cry in the crate for the first few nights, making you tired and agitated. The happy, social puppy is refusing to greet the half dozen overly excited friends you invited over to see your new puppy—or the overly excited, playful children you have at home. The puppy refuses to walk on a leash. Many are wondering, How did my perfect puppy turn into a nightmare?
So let’s discuss realistic expectations of when a puppy goes home.
First of all, the puppy has been in the breeder’s home since birth. They had their mother and littermates. They had their routine, were taught expectations, and were completely in their comfort zone. Now, suddenly, they are taken to a totally new environment. Picture yourself being dropped into an unknown country in a different part of the world. You know only a few words of their language. Different sounds, smells, temperatures, animals, and people. Now, in the middle of all this, we are switching up your routine, possibly deciding to have a party with people you don’t know, and asking you to do jobs you have no idea how to do. Overwhelming, to say the least.
This is what every puppy goes through when going to their new home. Stress manifests in different forms—from not eating, reluctance to play, or hesitation to greet people, to being apprehensive at the vet’s office or when strangers reach for them. Diarrhea, vomiting, and depression can also occur.
So what can you, as a new owner, do to help your little one acclimate?
- Most puppies take 3–4 weeks to acclimate to their new home. Repeat after me: THREE TO FOUR WEEKS, sometimes even longer! Not 1–2 days. I can’t stress enough how much time is needed for a dog or puppy to feel comfortable in their new home.
- PLEASE limit guests during the first two weeks. We understand you are excited to show off your new baby, but they need time to adjust. Plan on waiting 1–2 weeks before inviting people over.
- Ask guests to remove their shoes before entering the home to prevent germs from spreading to your new, vulnerable puppy.
- Have guests sit on the floor or ground and wait until the puppy approaches them. No squealing or grabbing the puppy, as this is very frightening to them.
- Set up a good routine.
- Restrict the puppy to a small area of the house. This not only reduces them being overwhelmed but also allows you to watch them closely.
- Don’t expect an 8–12 week old puppy to walk on a leash. Instead, work at home with a leash where they are comfortable. Let them drag the leash and use treats to encourage them to walk with you.
- If your puppy is refusing to walk, give them a good amount of time.
- Understand your puppy needs time to see you as family. Expecting an immediate bond is unrealistic. They need to establish who the leader of the pack is in order to feel safe and understand the hierarchy of the family unit.
- Train your puppy. This not only helps you bond, but also helps the puppy look to you for direction and guidance.
- Children are also big stressors to tiny, fragile puppies, so please keep an eye on children around the puppy at all times. Children may need to learn how fragile the puppy is and how scared it may be.
- Lastly, and most importantly, BE PATIENT. Don’t declare, “OMG, there’s something wrong with this dog.” Nothing occurs overnight.
Outings should be planned after the puppy has received ALL vaccinations, and then only at the puppy’s speed. While you might imagine a fun walk around the lake, in reality your puppy might only be able to handle a short distance that day. They may be curious and energetic, or they may become overwhelmed. Watch your puppy for cues on how to proceed. Most outings for me take a long time, as I am often just standing still while the puppy cautiously explores the new environment. Patience is key!
Remember, if the puppy was wonderful at the breeder’s house but is now struggling, you as the owner need to help the puppy adjust—which takes time, patience, and training. Have realistic expectations and give the puppy positive feedback and happy experiences.
Each puppy is an individual. Don’t compare your current puppy to past pets or judge their behavior based on how another dog handled things. Lastly, try to see things from a puppy’s perspective and adjust situations accordingly.
Love your puppy, and they will love you 100 times more in return.
